Inspiring New Book Highlights Resilience of “The Optimistics,” A Group of Men Living with Young-Onset Dementia
Author Richie Freiman published his book, The Optimistics, this past summer, a powerful account of three men in their 50s diagnosed with young-onset dementia who formed their own club—complete with matching t-shirts. He connected with these men with the help of the young-onset dementia (YOD) support group facilitated by YES! in partnership with the Alzheimer’s Association. Despite the hardships of their diagnosis, these men have embraced a spirit of optimism and resilience, inspiring others along the way. As the group grows, more of their peers have been drawn to the joy and camaraderie of The Optimistics, making it much more than just a club—it’s become a lifeline for those walking a difficult road.
Freiman, a personal friend of one of the founding members, was so moved by their courage and unbreakable bond that he decided to share their story. His book highlights not only the challenges but also the joy, laughter, and deep friendships that have been nurtured within this group. It’s a testimony to how life with young-onset dementia can be about more than just loss; it’s also a time to thrive, to celebrate small victories, and to cherish the moments that matter most.
YES! was pleased to be able to facilitate connections with the people they serve – families affected by a YOD diagnosis. Executive Director Deb Hanna was integral in introducing Freiman to families in Maryland who have walked this difficult path and navigated this disease. Each chapter of the book focuses on a family system that was indelibly marked by this disease and walks through their story so that the reader gains a deeper understanding of humanity and brain disease and hope. Freiman also tells his own story through walking with others. The way he was pulled into this world of a dementia that affects young people. Some as young as 40 years old are being diagnosed, while they
have children in middle and high school.
In a particularly heartwarming chapter, Freiman chronicles a recent trip funded by YES!—an organization supporting families impacted by young-onset dementia—where the three friends, along with Deborah Hanna, Executive Director of YES!, took a road trip from Baltimore to St. Mary’s County, Maryland. They spent the day on the waters of the Chesapeake Bay, laughing, playing, and soaking in the camaraderie that has become so vital to their journey. For one of the men, Mike, who travels over two and a half hours each month to attend in-person support groups, YES! has made overnight stays possible so he can avoid late-night drives home.
Freiman’s book offers a unique and inspirational perspective on young-onset dementia, showing how families can navigate this difficult journey together. Through the uplifting stories of The Optimistics and others connected to YES!, it paints a picture of community, resilience, and the moments of joy that can emerge even amidst profound loss. Find the book here.
